We are living in a wonderful, but insincere and subtle world. Sometimes it’s better to hold your tongue and just smile to the people you’re talking with. You don’t have to behave like James Bond, but you should be a bit cunning and bright enough for the sake of your happiness and prosperity.
On the one hand, human curiosity drives people to explore and understand many truths and secrets of life. On the other hand, dark-hearted personalities may use their knowledge and the info about other people to bring somebody down. If you’re too talkative by nature, you need to know what to say and what to keep back from others. I can state with assurance that the most dangerous and taboo theme is your life problems. Your problems are your own and telling everyone about your failures is a bad idea, because you can become a Ms. Negativity for your friends. Positive and joyous people don’t yearn to get drawn into somebody’s issues, because it’s not their pair of shoes. Bad people are often glad to see drowning in your problems and tears. They can also turn your misery against you and your family.
I know that my life is my burden and if somebody is insistently interested in my life, I try to ignore their questions and use jokes. Humor and sarcasm help me handle the situation and remain polite with negative people. Here are 5 things you should never discuss with people.
1. Your secrets
What is the meaning of the word ‘secret’? I think that secret is a piece of news, definite truth or information known to a limited number of people. Every single person in this world has at least one secret. I know that keeping secrets is a challenging thing, because not everyone can resist the temptation to share interesting information about somebody or something. I try to let only dearest and nearest into my little ordinary secrets. I’m sure that my family will never play a double game with me. When it comes to top secrets, I try to hide the forbidden info from everyone. I won’t have a good night’s sleep, if I know that the top secrets of my soul are open to a large number of people and enemies.
2. Private life
Private life is a sacred and precious thing. I’m not a superstitious person, but I believe that the power of human feelings and emotions can affect my private life. No one likes to be condemned for their actions, words and interests. Nowadays youth unconsciously provokes others to discuss and criticize their private life. They post personal info, photos and videos on different social media websites. Millions of people have an opportunity to observe the details of each others’ personal life.
Social networks are the biggest source of lies and misinformation. Plus your enemies can turn it to their advantage. They may slander you or your dearest people that is extremely dangerous for your relationship. There’s no need to delete or block your social network accounts. Just try to add fewer photos that make your private life accessible to both good and bad personalities.
Do you like when others ask you about your incomes? I think, no. This is pointless question. This question is usually asked by those who like to count the money of others. If you want to have stable incomes, then try to be less boastful. People often cannot overcome a deep feeling of envy when they see somebody’s welfare. Malignant envy can exert big negative influence on your luck.
If you’re in the money, you should learn to resist people’s envy. The art of being rich is not only the ability to make money, but the skill to save it and hide your incomes from ill-wishers. Try to behave naturally and speak less about your savings and goods. It will serve as a shield from the dark energy of envious people.
4. Your heart
Human heart is a very vulnerable and frail thing. Only one careless word or action can seriously hurt it. You should be careful while talking to other people. Your desire to pour out your soul can help you get rid of negativity and find strength and inspiration to live. But, every bean has its back. Your enemies can get to know all your weak points and miseries. I hope you realize that no good will come of it. There can be no doubt that your opponents will find a wonderful opportunity to rub salt into your wounds and make your life more difficult for you.
If you want to share your pain with somebody else, you need to be sure that the interlocutor means you well. Openness and sincerity require a high level of assurance and confidence. When my worries and anxiety are lying like a heavy weight on my heart, I go to the church and bare my soul to the God. He’s the one who’ll never criticize or condemn my life.
5. Future goals
Every person in the world has certain dreams, plans and goals. Many communicative personalities fancy discussing their future plans with people they don’t know well. What for to tell somebody about your dream? You’d better reach your goals without announcing and sharing them with others.
It’s scientifically proved that garrulous people have fewer chances to achieve desirable results than those who tend to keep their future projects and ideas in secret. I think that your intentions shouldn’t become public, but remain personal. When you fulfill the task, you’ll have a nice occasion to boast your achievements. I know that it’s also challenging and harmful to suppress the desire to announce your plans, but the game is worth the candle. It will help you concentrate on your thoughts and make you motivated enough to accomplish them.
Communication with people is a good thing, but it has its advantages and disadvantages. Unfortunately, there’re lots of crafty people who dream to stab you in the back at the earliest opportunity. Wise people try not to give occasion to their enemies. They keep their life in secret and avoid quality chats with people they don’t trust. You should also know that your tongue can be your enemy. I hope these pieces of advice will help you make a resolute step toward success. Do you keep your private life in secret? What other things we should keep back from people? Share your thoughts, please.